I have described this in these comments:
The weird part is that it completely bombs out my pc when using vscode and flow-for-vscode. But when I use atom, there are no problems.
Could it be that flow-for-vscode is doing something unexpected?
i bet the atom version uses flow-language-server: https://github.com/flowtype/flow-for-vscode/pull/150 and so has no need to spawn off the processes itself. You're welcome to try wrap up that PR for this extension.
Thanks for the pointer. I think I'd bite off a bit too much...
@barbalex I have a similar problem, but specifically Flow is creating dozens of instances of itself to max out RAM.
Can confirm, on linux, see the entries with '26GB'
Columns are Command User CPU% RSS VM-Size PID

There might be some memory leak
This happens to me too - had to disable the vscode extension
Has there been any active movement on trying to fix this problem?
What about excluding ./**/node_modules/ and JSON or JS files over a certain size by default?
I am closing this issue as flow has improved a lot (try using new version of flow). Also, this plugin switched to using lsp which will fix plugin spawning lot of processes.
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Has there been any active movement on trying to fix this problem?